I want to quit my job right now! What you should do to avoid regretting quitting with a bang [my own experience].

I want to quit my job right now! and what you should do to avoid regretting quitting in the heat of the moment. Work/Part time Job

In this issue.Risks of leaving a company at a moment's noticeI would like to talk about

I myself, I think it's momentum.I have had the experience of quitting a company with an easy feeling and regretting it immensely.

As a result, theI ended up eating my way through temp work.Preparation is really important.

I want to quit my job right now! I would like to talk about what you should do to avoid regretting quitting on the spur of the moment, based on my own experiences.

It was really hard at the time... lol

It is extremely dangerous to quit a company on the spur of the moment, thinking "I'll find another one before too long" or "I'll be able to manage.

In fact, here's someone who quit right away and went into crisis.

I'm going freelance! and quit with a bang!

Recently, more and more people are choosing to work freely as freelancers, such as bloggers and writers.

I think that in itself is totally fine!

I don't see anything wrong with this in and of itself.Without second thoughts, "I'll make money as soon as I freelance!"It is too risky to quit suddenly thinking that

Even if you have some paid vacation time left or a month or so to spare....

(Unless you have enough money to not have to work for a year)

Because after quittingI hear stories like, "I became a freelancer, but I'm not making any money at all," or "It's not what I thought it would be..." And that's the reality.I think it's a good idea.

(unless you have special skills)

Successful people = I can be like them! It is too dangerous to make the mistake of thinking that

I'll find a job soon! and quit in a hurry pattern.

This is exactly what I experienced.I thought, "I'm sure I'll find a job soon..." and quit my job when I hadn't found a new one and didn't end up finding one.There were times when

As a result, we were able to eat through dispatch.

Seriously, I'm glad I had a short term temporary job.... There's an hourly wage there, and it's a fixed deadline, so it's over in a short period of time.

I'm really glad I had a short term temporary job because I couldn't live on a part time job...

It was a time when I experienced firsthand that a good heart can afford to spend money...

Especially in my case.I had a successful experience when I easily found a new job at my last job, so I got carried away.I guess so.

It was a huge failure.

I thought I would find the next one right away, but I didn't...

Aaah!!!! My life!!!! W!

(By the way, I left that next job after I found the right one.)

Exceptions. This one could quit with a bang.

However, if this is the case, would you be willing to quit with a bang? I thinkExceptionThere are

Exception 1: If your spirit is already at its limit, you should leave the company immediately.

You said it's dangerous to quit so easily.Exceptions.

That's for a variety of reasons.one's ownmentalがやばい場合。

もうこの会社にいたら精神崩壊する!辛すぎる!ならすぐに辞めるべきです。

といっても生活費のこともありますから「一概にやめろ!」と言えないのですが・・・やはり自分の心や体が1番大事だと思うのです。

それに休職っていう手もありますから。できれば休職がおすすめですかね。

お金も入ってくるし。

こう思うのには理由があって、私自身経験があるからなんです。

精神崩壊の一歩手前までいったことがあって痩せコケて、毎日泣いてばかりで、もう限界だったんですよね。

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I was so stressed out that I finally lost weight and got chapped cheeks.
I have worked in sales and SE positions in four different companies. I would like to talk about my experience of losing weight and getting chapped cheeks due to stress. When stress reaches its peak, people lose their appetite...

この時私の頭にあったのは、やる気でもお金でもなく、ただただこの環境から解放されたいってことだったんです。

こんな感じで、自分の心と体が限界状態であれば、それは自分を優先すべきと考えます。

繰り返しますが、お金の事情もありますので、そこも考えて決断することをお勧めします。

お金の余裕は心の余裕ですから・・

Exception 2: If you're not worried about money, you can quit with a bang.

上述しましたが、1年働かなくても大丈夫なくらい資金があるなら別It is.

勢いで辞めても生活費が確保できているのなら、心にも余裕があるし、次の準備を進める時間も確保できますから。

私が危険!in Tokyoリスク!とか言うのは、この生活費とか経済的な部分のリスクが大きいからなんです。

でもこのリスクがある程度回避できる状況なら、勢いに身をまかせてもいいと思うんですね。

たとえば無職でも問題なく半年は生きていけるほどの貯金がある、とかね。(半年はちょっと厳しいかも)

お金の余裕は心の余裕です・・

What you should do to avoid regretting quitting at the spur of the moment

というわけで、これが本題。

あなたの精神状態がヤバイ寸前までにいっておらず、勢いだけで辞めようと思っているのであれば、辞める前にできるだけ準備をしておくことをおすすめします。

お節介な話かもしれませんが。

転職だったら転職先を見つけておいたほうがいいし、フリーランスになりたいなら会社員時代に何ができるのか、自分のスキルを確認しておくこと。

副業として始めてみて、本業を超えそうだと目処がたったら本業を辞める、のように進めておくこと。

ちょっとでも「いまの会社微妙〜」って思ったら自分でできる準備はすすめておいたほうがいいです。

私のように調子乗って辞めてノイローゼ寸前になってあたふた焦るなんてことにならぬように

準備をしすぎて機会を逃してしまった・・ってなったら本末転倒ですが、できる限り準備をしてリスク回避ができる状態で辞めることをおすすめします。

辞めるのはいつだってできますからね。(精神崩壊寸前だったら別ですが)

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私自身、勢いで辞めてかなり後悔した経験があったんで「準備したほうがいいよ!」という意見が強いです。

でも全ての人にこれがあてはまるとは言い切れないので、こういう考えもあるんだって感じで参考にしていただければと思います。

ただ、全てにおいて言えることは、自分の体や心を第一に考えてくださいってことです。

これは大前提。

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