Matching apps have made me go "hmm?" I will talk about it from a woman's point of view.

The discomfort I felt with the matching app. Love and Marriage

I'm a woman on a matching app.What? Something doesn't feel right..." "Wow..."I would like to share with you some examples of what I thought was a good idea.

I don't want you to feel like I'm representing the girls, because that's my personal opinion.Some women may feel as I do...I would be happy if you read it like that.

Matching apps that made me go, "Hmm?" and uncomfortable feeling I had

All of this is my true story.

Use the nearest station or neighborhood to your home as a date location.

I have had the experience of being jokingly asked if I would make it to XX station. (The XX station was the nearest station to the other party.

Even when I was joking, I felt sick because I could feel the rush from his expression....

Story|Don't go on a date with a guy I met on a matching app. How I feel
Let me tell you about my experience of meeting someone I met on a matching app for the first time and don't know what to expect.

Setting a date at your nearest station may be a common practice in matching apps, but most women think, "What? I think it's a common practice in matching apps.

Even if you are not a slut, setting up at your nearest station means that it is easy for you to go home, and I think it is a lack of consideration for the other person....

The intermediate point is safe.

If there is no nice place to eat in the middle of each other's way, but if it is set up at a station near your house, you will say, "What? Ya fucked up?" I think there are a certain number of girls who think "What?

Even if someone said to me, "There are more stores at this station," I would say, "Hmmm...".

Lots of body touching.

Even if you have a favorable impression of a person, you may think, "Wow..." when you meet someone for the first time and they give you a sticky body-touching.

I thought.

It was fine from the time we met until we went to the pub, but after the conversation got going at the pub, the body touching gradually increased and I was a bit "eh" about it.

If it were a foreigner, I would still understand, but the person I was dealing with was Japanese. I felt a sense of discomfort.

Would you like to meet today? The invitation was sudden.

Now that I think about it, the flirtatious vibe was there from the very beginning...

Are you free today? And there were a few sudden invitations here and there.

Maybe I shouldn't have been so light-hearted in my dodging.

Women, or rather, people, not just women, prefer sincere people. Especially when it comes to romantic partners. (I think).

A sincere person would not ask, "Can we meet today?" without much consideration for the other person's convenience. A person with integrity does not ask "Can I meet you today?

It was very strange for me.

Second date was forgotten.

This is not a good feeling, or a very bad person, or...

After the first date, someone promised me a second date.

When we agreed on the first date, I believe I received a reminder or confirmation line around the day before.

So I wondered if I would hear from you a second time in that vein. (Maybe it was my fault, too, for being in a wait-and-see attitude. (Maybe it was my fault, too, for being in a wait-and-see attitude.)

But when I didn't hear from her the night before, I asked her, "So, it looks like we're meeting tomorrow, right?" I replied, "Did I say that? I replied, "I don't know, I guess we're meeting tomorrow.

At that point I figured it all out and ended it there with that person.

I think the other party told me that this woman was no longer a pear.

But still, I was surprised that he forgot to make a commitment once (and it's still on the line), and if he didn't want to go on a date, he should have cancelled it...

The profile picture in the matching app is suspicious at best.

Matching apps are all about the profile, but sometimes there are people who don't have a profile picture or make it look like a certain celebrity.

It could be that they lack confidence in their own face, but it could also be that they have some secret they don't want to be revealed.

I have gone into more detail about this story here.

About suspicious people on matching apps
If you see someone suspicious on a marriage app, you need to be on some level of alert. About a case I found suspicious - How I feel
I think marriage activity apps are a serious and earnest way for most people to try to get married.

summary

Matching apps that made me go, "Hmm?" and uncomfortable feeling I had

  • Use the nearest station or neighborhood to your home as a date location.
  • Lots of body touching.
  • Would you like to meet today? The invitation was sudden.
  • Second date was forgotten.
  • The profile picture in the matching app is suspicious at best.

I have talked about the discomfort I have felt with matching apps.

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