I should have found someone to talk to and vent early.

I suddenly remember the days of my corporate life. And when I was too busy at work and it was almost time to go to the limit, I think, "I should have vent before I reached my limit....

If I had found someone to talk to about my painful situation, I wouldn't have made the mistake of crying at work.

In this issue, I would like to talk about the importance of finding someone to talk to when work becomes difficult, based on my own experience.

Work is hard. Then vent. This is important. (Haiku)

I realized that when work is hard, it is extremely important to talk to others and get your feelings out before you exceed your limits, if possible.

I couldn't solve the problem on my own, but my strange stubbornness and pride made it difficult for me to confide in others.

But as a result, I became emotionally unstable because I couldn't stop crying during work. I was just feeling sad and bitter because I was crying all of a sudden even though there was nothing going on.

I am sure people around me were surprised, and my reputation for being absent without missing work fell apart.

I kept making the mistake of showing my face in tears, and I wished I had ventilated sooner.

To those of you who cry because your job is so hard, I can tell you from my own experience. Think about what you are working for - How I feel

To those of you who cry because your job is too hard. There was a time when I cried every day because I was holding on to too much of my workload. Every day was full of work, and even though it was hard, the workload kept increasing. I was on the edge mentally. I would like to share my thoughts based on this real-life experience.

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You should choose the right person to talk to about your work problems and hard feelings.

When you talk about the difficulties and worries of your job, you shouldBe careful who you talk to.

People who work in an environment where the other person is too stoic, personality-wise.Stoic.should be avoided.

Because if they say, "Isn't it that lenient? I have a much harsher working environment.

Then you may think, "I'm not ready yet.... I have to push harder.

That is definitely not a good idea.

Even if they are working in a stoic environment, it is fine if they are willing to listen to you, but if the conversation is likely to become preachy, I recommend that you choose someone else.

And if you already want to fundamentally change your work, I think it is a good idea to boldly discuss this with your supervisor, although it is a different nuance from venting. I have done this myself.

There were too many tasks, and I thought I would have a mental breakdown if there were more.

You should think carefully about what you are going to say and to whom you are going to say it. (It is also not good to think about it and not be able to talk about it easily.)

By the way, I thought it was better to talk to someone who has changed jobs than to someone who has never changed jobs (maybe that's obvious).

Who do you talk to about changing jobs? My experience of asking for advice after 3 months in the company and it became harder and harder [story] - How I feel

Who should you talk to about changing jobs? It's a very confusing question, isn't it? The bottom line is that you should not talk to people at the same workplace, people in the same situation, or people who have never changed jobs before. The more I talked to people about it, the more I felt suffocated and the harder it became. Thanks to the fact that I made the mistake of choosing the wrong person to talk to.

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All my friends don't like it.

Here I will tell you about my own experience.

When I used to be a corporate employee, the work hours were ridiculous and I had to take the last train every day.Working on holidays is also commonplace.I was working in an environment where

So you complained to your friends because it was too painful.

Then my friends don't like it.What? What is that environment?It was like that.

I was aware that I was in a bad environment, but since most of the employees at my workplace were all working hard, I began to wonder if this was normal.

But after talking to my friends, I realized again that it's still a bad idea.

My hairdresser was a bit of a donkey.

I even told him about it in passing when I went to my favorite hairdresser.

The hairdressing industry may have strict working hours, but such hairdressers were also frightened.

It's black............................ Ha ha ha.

If you can't talk easily, maybe you can use a delivery app.

Using so-called distribution apps (radio distribution) such as standfm or spoon to get listeners, who are strangers, to listen to you can also be a good way to vent.

Because it is not someone close to me, I can talk openly and frankly about all sorts of things, such as my daily frustrations. (Without revealing any personal information).

Some people are quite sympathetic to my complaints and negative delivery, and I actually feel lighter when I do it.

And if you get tired of it, just delete your account and that's it.

I think it is quite possible to vent out loud.

Finally.

Having experienced being cut off at the last minute, I can tell you that the first thing you need to do is to blurt out your worries and feelings.

This is really important, I thought.

It's fine if you can keep it to yourself and resolve it on your own, but if you talk about it to others and say, "Oh my God, I was just overthinking things," or "I feel so much better now," or "I'm quitting this shitty company! I'm going to change jobs! It can be a positive experience.

I thought that the human psyche is extremely sensitive and can be easily broken - How I feel

At one IT company I used to work for, there were a number of times when people went mentally crazy or kept taking days off.

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