I would like to talk about an interaction I made a mistake in my marriage application.
To be more specific, it is a message exchange on a marriage activity app in which the person says, "I responded in this way and the other person stopped responding.
If you're having trouble keeping up with messages on marriage activity apps, you may be doing the same thing I am.
I would be happy to help in any way I can.
- There are various reasons why a partner does not respond to you on marriage activity apps.
- Wrong. The person on the marriage app stopped replying to me.
- Biggest mistake in marriage activity apps 1: Replying with one line to a 7-8 line text from the other party.
- Marriage activity apps fiasco 2: I dissed the other person with a bit of sarcasm and they stopped coming to me.
- Marriage Activity Apps Mistake #3: Messages that don't seem to have marriage in mind
There are various reasons why a partner does not respond to you on marriage activity apps.
Since we can never know how people feel, there are many reasons why a person may not respond to you.
- It could simply be a sign of a lack of pulse.
- I'm sure I'll find a boyfriend or girlfriend or...
- The other party's billing month ends or...
- They may take it in a different way than we intended...
- My boyfriend/girlfriend found out and I had to take a recess...
- I simply forgot to respond...
- I had other pressing matters to attend to, and I didn't have time for the marriage activity apps...
Anyway, for a variety of reasons, I will not be able to get a response.
However, my personal impression is that there is something in the text we send that makes the recipient think, "I don't have to reply.
If there is a real reason for not receiving a response, that's fine, but there is no way for us to know, and I think it's best to at least be considerate, or at least not send strange messages.
I can't say I'm the one who stopped receiving replies from the other party.
Wrong. The person on the marriage app stopped replying to me.
I will now tell you exactly what kind of content I actually sent that caused the other person to stop replying.
Let me just add something before I do that.
The marriage activity application I was using was Ubride and I was a free member. Basically, free members of Ubride can only be matched with paying members.
And if the other party does not reply to the message, we cannot continue to send a second message.
So if you don't get a response, it ends there unless we become a paying member.
At the time I had no intention of becoming a paying member, so most of the exchanges ended as they did.
I can't say "if you send it like this, you won't get a reply," but if you do the same thing I'm about to tell you about, there is a high probability that the other party will be slow to reply, so I hope you will find it helpful.
Biggest mistake in marriage activity apps 1: Replying with one line to a 7-8 line text from the other party.
I think I replied to them in my sleep.
I had just been matched with a person who sent me a message that was quite long, and I had to respond carefully, but I responded with a single line (in a rather curt manner).
When I responded in an appropriate manner with a "yay, here you go" kind of response, the reply stopped at once.
What a slovenly guy, none. I guess they thought, "What a simple guy.
Marriage activity apps fiasco 2: I dissed the other person with a bit of sarcasm and they stopped coming to me.
It's like, "Well, I'm not going to get a reply, right?
The other party told me himself that he resembles a certain popular actor.
I thought, "What?" and then I got irritated, so I poked him there and said something sarcastic.
Then he stopped responding. I don't usually get a reply, do I?
But I said it in a joking way, so I thought he would come back with something like, "Don't say that!
It was not returned.
Marriage Activity Apps Mistake #3: Messages that don't seem to have marriage in mind
I want to get married and have a happy family. But there is a part of me that looks at it coldly.
Marriage is...well, it's a lot of things. It can be difficult. There are also emotions.
I was also cold and scattered, and I said something like a stranger in the middle of my message.
Marriage is heh-heh-heh. I was cool or indifferent.
Oh, no.... But it was already too late. The reply stopped coming.
These were my missives in the marriage application messages.
Some messages were totally normal and were not returned, so this is just for reference....
Please take note of this so that you don't lament like I did, "I stopped getting responses from my partner on marriage activity apps...".
If I make another mistake in the message exchange, I will add it here as needed.