Relationships and discomfort." Don't miss the "I'm feeling uncomfortable" sign! What I've learned from experience

Relationships and discomfort human relations

Relationships... sometimes they're amazing.something wrongDo you ever feel the "I'm not here..."?

Everyone has felt the discomfort.

But for some people it's disgust, or it's not that disgusting, but something is stuck.

This is super important.

I even added one more darkness to my life because I ignored this... lol.

This time, I'd like to share with you the importance of discomfort! I will talk about this based on my own experience.

Never ignore discomfort... it is a sign of your heart.

I'm not talking about the spicier stuff.

I don't know... I don't feel comfortable with this person...

He's a nice guy, but I don't feel comfortable...

He's a sweet guy, friendly, but not comfortable...

Have you ever felt something like that?

I, too, have.(I've been ignoring it for quite a while now...LOL)

I wish I could say that the characteristics of people who feel uncomfortable are... but I can't say this in general.

because Discomfort = mental sensorwellYou are the only one who knows.

Yes, so it doesn't matter what is right or wrong in the world.

Because it's you, because of your past.Because it's your sensitivity that makes you feel so uncomfortable!

If you feel uncomfortable, it means something is stuck for you (i.e., don't go any further).

My Dark Past. Ignoring the discomfort (mind sensors) led to a catastrophe.

I don't want to remember too much, so please let me omit some of the details.

After realizing that discomfort is important...I suddenly found myself comparing it to my past.

thenI have had many experiences that have convinced me that this is really true.

The uncomfortable situations were mainly activated in relationships.

Experience 1: The ties that bind

When I met a certain person, I thought to myself, "Oh, this person has a peculiar personality..." and for a moment I was ready.

I don't dislike quirky people per se, but it was the quirkiness of the genre that I didn't like.

But I didn't have many friends at the time, and I wanted to increase my relationships as much as possible, so I decided to continue my relationship with that person.

As a result, we learn that he had the worst personality.

(I've already cut ties with him.)

I want to warn you that this is the worst personality for me. For others, it could be a good personality.

But for me it's impossible! There were many

And this is what the discomfort I had felt since we first met was telling me. ・・・・

My heart felt that it might be too subtle to continue the relationship any longer, but my head was thinking that it was because I didn't have many friends.

I could be involved with all kinds of people from now on. I was strangely thinking, "It would be a waste if I cut ties here," lol.

Worst !!!!!

Words like "what a waste" and "it's just a karma."

It is true that relationships are important. But I believe that if you are feeling uncomfortable, you should let go of that relationship.

On the other hand, I don't want to be associated with people I consider to be "eh ・・・・・・・".

Experience 2: I wanted to experiment to see how uncomfortable it felt.

I also had an "ah-ha" moment rather recently, didn't I?

I met someone online.

At first I thought, "He seems polite, sensible, and kind," and then I thought, "Does he like me as a person (regardless of the opposite sex)? I thought, "Is he liking me as a person (without regard to the opposite sex)?

But.I felt somehow uncomfortable.

Yes, somewhat (but this is important).

Conversation, what an atmosphere.

I can't explain exactly how I felt. I can't explain it, but at any rate, I felt uncomfortable.

(It's a matter of sensitivity. It's hard to explain...)

And this time I did not miss the discomfort and looked at the situation based on my past experience.

I've learned. ・・・・!LOL!

I like to experiment with everything (but that doesn't mean I do anything on purpose or anything weird like that).

I treated them normally.

And... the result was still the same.I was like, hmmm.

But maybe there is a case like this ↓.

Feeling uncomfortable → "the result will be bad as usual..." thought → placebo effect → "The result is worse..." → Placebo effect

Like the porasebo effect that

But I also feel that the placebo effect is not really relevant.

BecauseIn the first experience, I was not thinking, "This is going to end badly, as usual.

Regardless of the placebo, I don't know what it was, but that's the way it turned out (I knew he was a thing).

After all, only he/she knows which one this is or what it's like...

You should follow your heart, not your head, which is what I feel after living for over 30 years.

Again, I'm not a spi... !!!!

Feelings are... important. ・・・・

Move according to your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You say.

This is not self-help or anything, but it is really true, and I think it is true after living for more than 30 years.

It's weighty... (says himself)

Because it's me.The sensor works.

Because it's you.The sensor works.

So, for example, if there is a person called Mr. A, I don't feel uncomfortable with Mr. A, but you feel uncomfortable with Mr. A.

This is !!!!!!!! It's !!!!!

You might then know that I don't find Mr. A to be uncomfortable, and you might think, "Maybe I'm just imagining things."Don't miss that part!!!!

Others can never figure out why we feel uncomfortable!

There is no need to wonder, "Am I being weird?" There is no need to wonder, "Am I being weird?

I think the discomfort you feel in a relationship is a "don't get involved" signal that you can sense because it is you.

I think so. It's not the right signal for me, like.

As I mentioned in my testimonial.

I am a person whose history of darkness has increased because I think "maybe I am thinking too much," "I am tired," "I am tired," "I feel uncomfortable, but I seem to feel good," "I don't have many friends, so I want to increase the number of friends as much as possible," and so on.

Because we do not want you to create darkness.

summary

So we talked about relationships and discomfort.

It is very important, so I recommend that you catch even the slightest discomfort and live your life according to your heart.

Thank you for reading to the end today: !!!!!

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