You know, before.Maybe I'm the type of person who gets hit too hard.I talked about this, but I would like to leave a similar experience here.
A story about a senior colleague at work who took an attitude that made me think, "Hmm?" I was told that a senior colleague at work took an attitude that made me think, "Hmmm?
I hear that the more capable people are, the angrier they get, but I'm not sure I'd want to be a party to that...Subtle!
I think it's case by case, and I'll tell you why.
You wouldn't behave like that to other people... and that's what I thought about the experience.
A common example is the one I'm about to tell you about.
This is the story of Boss A.
Boss A was good friends with Boss B, who was younger than Boss A. I was learning my job from both of them.
In order of rank, the person most responsible is Boss A.
One day, I made a mistake of forgetting something important at a certain store. It was not that important, but a mistake is a mistake.
In response, Boss A scolded me. Of course. In response, I just thought I would honestly reflect on the situation.
A few weeks later, Boss B made the exact same kind of mistake as I did. I still remember it because I was surprised at the coincidence of making the same mistake.
I naturally thought, "Boss A is going to lose his temper again," but to my surprise, Boss A did not go through with it against Boss B.
To this I said, "What? No attention?" I was astonished.
Is this normal in society? In a manner of speaking, Boss B is in a subordinate position to Boss A.
Is it just that I want to impose my own peer pressure?
No matter how well we get along.Work is work, right?
After a few of these incidents, I lost all respect for Boss A.
In addition to this, I have been told that I hit a senior employee of a company harshly because we are good friends, or that I irritated him while he was teaching me, and he told me in an angry tone of voice.
I think the bosses around me who heard this also felt the tension and said, "He has a hard time with XX (my name)," so I think they knew what was going on.
To be honest, the senior and I were good friends.
But even if you get along well, that's no reason to hit them hard.
I don't want to be offended.Pick someone who is easy to anger.I don't like the act of being angry. If you are going to be angry, shouldn't everyone be equally angry? I think.
Is this selfishness...? (Sudden questioning style)
When I overslept and was late and apologized to my demon boss.and ... andWhen you make a mistake in answering the phoneI was not angry at my boss, nor did I think for a millimeter that he was not angry at everyone else.
(No, of course I don't want people to get mad at me, but... you know that if you make a mistake, they will get mad or pissed off at you, right? I don't disagree with that.)
The more able you are, the angrier you get? Hmmm .... I guess that's on a case by case basis.
I think there are many cases like that. They are worth polishing.
But me, in my case, I didn't feel that way.
This depends on the recipient and how he or she receives it.
In my case, I didn't think "Okay! I didn't think, "I'll do my best," but on the contrary, I was irritated because I thought, "You would never say that to another newcomer, Mr. A, would you?" I was irritated because I thought, "You would never say that to another newcomer, Mr. A, would you?
Because there were other people in the company with more potential who were worth polishing than I was. I've never seen you get angry at them. At least not in public.
Again, it's not that I don't want to get angry, it's that I don't like the act of choosing someone who is easy to anger and getting angry.
About easily offended people and spirituality
Talking about everything being spiritual.Hmmm.But spiritually speaking, I think it means that I was giving off the vibe that "it's okay to be angry" and the other person caught it.
I think there is a section that is rather like that.
But when you are new or in a weak position, you can't be bossy, and at the time, I couldn't say "Why are you so hard on me when you aren't so hard on others?
I couldn't even say straight out, "I feel hard sometimes," because I didn't know what his/her attitude would be like after that (sorry, that's my excuse).
This may be a bit off topic, but in an anime called "Jutsu Kaisen," there is a line in which a strong-minded woman says to a weak man, "You're a bully, aren't you?
From the bully's point of view, you can tell. I could smell that this guy could be bullied. The woman did not bully me, though.
So I also thought that there was no possibility that because I was in that kind of mood, I made the other party think, "I can be angry with this guy.
just becauseI don't think, "Oh, I'm sorry, I'll accept it."
Instead of accepting it, I think I need to take a firm stand in the future so that I don't give off that kind of vibe, and I intend to take that stance.
Yes. So, I may have been an easily offended person - that was my experience.
